Ghosted before 1st date

I attract men who repeatedly tell me how lovely I am, they smile when they see my messages, blow up my phone with messages, tell my how funny and sweet I apparently am.....then vanish before we get to meet.....I assume this is some kind of belief but I'm at a loss.....I believe I'm worth at the very least a first date! But just can't get over that hurdle....even when they meet someone else they still message me periodically telling me what a lovely person I am.....I just don't understand.......