Sp and I were never in a relationship so he’s not an ex. Long time friend with so much emotional history. We hooked up about over a year ago first time, and that’s all I got from him - no romantic relationship. I didn’t have the courage to say no- . He met someone and I became a nobody . Well kind of. He runs a business and I’ve always been his right hand man so to speak. I still run many things for him operationally- but virtual not in person. I work another full time job
Anyway after not seeing him for 9 months (although in contact) I went over yesterday to meet with another coworker so I could train him on a program. The coworker left before me and my sp put his kids to bed.
He tried to hook up but I told him immediately we can’t go back to that. He understood for like a second and then became hostile and argumentative. I thought it was best to leave and he said can we talk so we did very little before he tried again I was still not interested and it became a big huge fight. He called me a moron and started making things up saying that I said them when I clearly didn’t. I’m sober he likes to drink and smoke pot so I felt more clear minded . The fight got worse, hurtful things got said - he told me to get off his property. When I told him no to the hook up I tried to explain it’s bc I want more - dates, connection, building a relationship etc.
anyway he told me get out and I said don’t text me again ( out of anger, he will have to bc work). But ok after all my imaginary scenes and inner conversations- what happens now?
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