Oblivious and indifferent SP

What if an SP (who isn't an ex) and who you've never been with, and considers you are some kind of 'friend' she texts one or twice in a blue moon, seemingly immune to being manifested? In 3D, she is 20 years young than me, so SHE may think 'Eew!'
This single attempt at manifesting is destroying, day by day, any idea i have that manifesting 'works'. ☹️