My Neville GoddardMy fiancé called off our wedding five months ago. I can’t shake the feelings that might have led to this situation.
1. Fear of abandontment
2. I’m not worthy of the engagementring
3. It is not a good feeling to live with me
Of course, behind this whole story is a person who has struggled with commitment issues his whole life and has addiction problems, but I can’t let go of what happened, because I know what happened inside me.
Is this a lost case now?
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No, its not a lost case,the fact that you are aware now that what caused all of these is itself is big step. I think inner work will help most
I have a hard time applying the teachings. This breakup brought so many negative feelings, I took medication, I almost wanted to die. The whole family hates him, they never want to see him again. I actually blocked him, but every time we talked, it was almost like my ex-fiancé was doing the revision with his words, but of course distancing himself from the new beginning. We last talked 2 weeks ago, it was actually a good conversation, but now I have decided that I will not initiate the conversation. Unfortunately, I secretly check his Instagram and he parties and is with people I referred, so I get the feeling that I was the reason he distanced himself from certain people.