I'm currently manifesting my SP, but a few weeks ago I casually decided that I wanted to experience being pursued by another guy I know. I wasn't trying to manifest a relationship with this person and wasn't emotionally attached to the outcome. I simply had the thought/assumption, “I want him to pursue me.” If anything, part of me actually doubted it would happen, and then I basically dropped it. What was interesting was that the 3D seemed to show me the complete opposite. When I first met him, he had been very warm and attentive toward me, but over the following months he became increasingly distant. The last few times I saw him, he barely spoke to me, avoided looking at me, would sometimes move away when I approached, and generally seemed uninterested. I eventually created a story that perhaps he was just a bit of a snob and didn't particularly want to interact with me.
Then this weekend, completely unexpectedly, he approached me and told me that he had actually been interested in me and had wanted to pursue me, but someone had specifically told him not to talk to me/not to pursue me. He said that was why he'd deliberately been holding himself back. He then became extremely open about his admiration for me. He told me how much he enjoys being around me and even said that when I wasn't at an event initially, his heart felt empty because when I'm there I “fill the room” and affect the energy of the people around me. He followed me on social media and invited me to come see him at another event. I wanted to share this because although he isn't my SP and I don't want a relationship with him, the experience really struck me. I had specifically decided that I wanted to be pursued by him, dropped it without constantly checking for movement, and meanwhile the visible circumstances seemed to be showing me the exact opposite. What I eventually learned was that I had no idea what was happening behind those circumstances. I had interpreted his distance as lack of interest, when according to him, the desire to pursue me had been there while he was deliberately restraining himself. It was a lovely reminder for me not to let current appearances dictate what I accept as true, and not to assume I know what is happening behind the scenes simply because the 3D temporarily looks contrary to what I chose.
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Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏻
It's funny, cause you also said you don't really want a relationship with him, and then somebody told him not to pursue you.